We were married on September 12, 2004. A great 7 years already… I’ve learned a whole lot more in our 7 years together, but thought it would be fun to reflect using the number 7.
Anyway, to the list of 7… before children -
- There are “quality of time people”, and then there is Corrie. I’ve never been around someone who has wanted more of my time than she did, and still does. It was quite the adjustment, early on, for this introvert…
- A Man actually can be cleaner and more organized than Woman. :)
- CSI, Psychological Thrillers, True Crime and 9-11 Documentaries are not relaxing bedtime shows for everyone… who knew?
- Find the right Video Game (Lego anything on the Wii, FIFA Soccer), and Video games are “all good” and full of continued participation!
- For Corrie, almost everything has sentimental value and should be kept as such. Napkin from our first date… sure. A rock on the ground that was in front of us from the time we first laughed together… you bet. Her baby teeth… ok ok, this whole point is deeply exaggerated and I’m done making fun of it now. :)
- The telephone is far more important to use each day than I would have ever given it credit for. Not sure why anyone needs to talk to me or anyone else that much in a day… but, that’s my social girl!
A bonus six I’ve learned… after having children -
- That whole keeping sentimental things… just got a thousand times worse. :)
- Ditto for organization and cleanliness.
- If there is anything that needs to be discussed, any stories told, any fun conversation to be had after the kids go to sleep - it better be quick cause she is out like a light most nights.
- Lego anything on the Wii takes on a whole new escape from reality and important role for relaxation. :)
- Phone calls/texts to me and others are an incredibly important part of “adult interaction” each day. Unlimited minutes and texts have become a non-negotiable part of the budget! :)
- There are certain areas in which we have very different parenting styles and limits… For example, Corrie believes strongly in allowing our kids to explore and be confident. I prefer that they stay near me and never get hurt. Two minutes around our kids and you’ll see which parenting style has won out on that… ;) We have great kids… so, so blessed.
Lastly… No. 7 (for both lists).
I’d be lost without her. She is my best friend.
I am so blessed and grateful for my wife.
I know I got the better end of this deal.
Happy 7th Corrie… thank you, for wanting me.
Love you.
